by Dianna Defiant, Guest Writer
Location: Our Virtual Advice Desk

Dear Di,

I am a SL woman who is not afraid to have all sorts of naughty fun, and when I like someone I come on very strong.  Recently, though, a very pretty girl wrote to my SLprofile page: she wants to get to know me better. We’ve IM’ed and soon will go on an in-world date. Problem is, she’s having lots of RL problems and needs friends. I don’t want to make her life worse. She’s a bit shy, which I find incredibly sexy, but from what she says she wants to explore SL’s wilder side with me…What would you do?

Kisses,
Wild Child

Dear Wild Child,

What would I do if everything I like got dropped in my lap?? Haha - can you say “silver platter?” I’m surprised you need advice on this one! If this girl made first contact with you then she’s not that shy, so she is opening the door there. Do what she wants – get to know her better. And if she truly needs friends and you are willing to be one I say go for it and see what happens.

Everyone knows SL relationships of all kinds come & go, so go into it with no great expectations and see where things go. And if she really is shy you might want to ease her into that “wilder side” of SL. I’m sure she’ll let you know if she is or is not comfortable with whatever happens. If you’re not sure, ask.

And why do you think you’re seeing her would make her life worse? Maybe SL is a way for her to forget her RL problems and the distraction will be good for her. If her SL is all about finding people to talk out RL problems with, then you will have to decide if that’s what you want or not. I say give it a go and see where the trail leads you…let me know what happens!

XXOO
Di

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