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Dear Di:
Why do some people take SL so seriously…building houses, getting married, having babies, etc? It seems a little extreme to me to do all that in a make-believe world. What do you think?

Signed,
Here for FUN!

Dear Fun:
There’s lots of reasons for people doing these things in SL. One, they are too shy or scared to ever do those things except with the anonymity that the computer gives them. There are also lots of people in SL who are physically disabled in some way. SL gives them the opportunity and the mobility to do things they can’t do in RL. You will even see avvies in wheelchairs, and there are groups and places dedicated to the disabled in SL.

SL is appealing to those who are housebound for whatever reason. It gives them the chance to go out and explore “the world” safely, without being stared or laughed at, having anxiety, or facing any of the other challenges that some people face.

It’s a form of escape from everyday life for the everyday person… a way to have fun and live your fantasies. Always wanted a big wedding and reception but couldn’t afford it in RL? Well you can in SL – plus a honeymoon just about anywhere you want to go – and you’ll be back by dinnertime! I believe one reason there are so many good-looking avatars running around SL is because their owners never got to experience that in RL – so why not? Miniskirts & go-go boots – sure grandma! Male dancer with a 6-pack and bulging biceps for the couch potato who’s never been in a gym – of course! And babies in SL don’t need sitters…

So Fun – it might all seem too serious for you, but think about who might be behind that avvie with the baby or the one getting married. They might be using SL to fulfill a dream they could never have otherwise – and is that really so bad?

XXOO
Di
Diannadefiant at yahoo dot com

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Chuck,

Welcome!  Di was my mentor(ess) during my new days in SL.  She’s a good guide.  Feel free to contact me in-world when you create your avatar. 

And thanks for reading our blog.  SL offers all sorts of gaming opportunities, but also ones for business, art, even love!

Good luck!

Iggy

Hey Chuck - if you really want to know what SL is I suggest jumping right in…
go to http://www.secondlife.com and create a free account, get your avatar and start exploring. If you do that, look me up in-world and I will help you to get going with your looks, wardrobe, etc…
GOOD LUCK!!
XXOO
Di

Dear Di,

Whatis SL?Do you play it on the inRich site?  Iwould like to try it.  I coulduse some fantasy in my life. Not to say that the real one isn’t great.  I just would like to see what SL is.

Sincerely,

Chuck

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